Yes, Whoever You Are - You Are Beautiful Inside Out!!

Hey millennial..

I hope you are all safe and making your own odd one out way in this world. 

Today let's challenge the stereotype of how people perceive physical appearance in this 21st century & give our self a reality check. 

Have you ever gone through so called social judgments ?

Have you ever felt that you are not worthy ?

Have you ever thought that you are not getting what you deserve ? 

If yes, then here is a quick mind refreshment for you..

Let me tell you the truth today that you are beautiful inside out no matter what you are - black, white, tall, short, fat, thin or anything. Each one of us deserve respect and each life is precious. As shree sudha murthy ji once said "If we want to be happy then we have to change our attitude, we can't change other people but we do change our attitude"

First of all, we need to understand that as every coin has two sides so does every mind has two sides too which includes consciousness of our mind to know what is right and what is wrong. Thoughts in our mind generates from the roots of our upbringing, social culture and past life experiences. Based on that further we form our own values, understandings and belief system. 

Nowadays noise outside our mind has become so powerful that we unknowingly ignoring the consciousness of our own mind to decide what is right & wrong. When we actually do not think from our own mind but we do start overthinking based on the opinions of other's mind then gradually this repetitive nature start converting into habit and as a result depression, anxiety and insecurities tends to take place. Listen to your instincts and do not trap into the vicious cycle of people's judgments about you.  Do actually follow what we millennial say it's none of our business what people think about us. We do have to listen others to improve ourselves but listen only of the right people who wish good for us, guide us to right path and believe in us. 

Take a deep breath here.. The ultimate power of our mind is to think practically. Mind can become our best friend or best enemy beyond we could ever imagine.

From now on let's give importance to beautiful mind over beautiful face. We are the millennial and we have that power with us to give this world a true direction. 

So many people advise to think positive or stay positive but no one tell actually how to stay positive and deal with other people. So now it's your time to learn and believe in yourself..

1. Embrace your uniqueness  

Each & every individual is unique in this world so the question of comparing our self with others does not make sense whether we are comparing with better than us or not so better than us. Remember that whatever is unique about you is one of the most sexiest thing about you. Show it off the real you to the world with confidence in this era of makeup & zero figure and always carry your swag with you. Your uniqueness can also be anything quirky about you like your scars, your broken heart, your honesty, your real skin, your not so fit body etc. Let your weakness be your strength. decide your own standards and give this world a new definition of beauty in the real sense. Start feeling superior and do not let the inferiority of others lets you down. 

2.  Focus on your purpose

We are here to make a difference and contribute to the path of  making this world a better place to live. Your knowledge, your passion, your attitude are the most important pillars which will drive you to fulfill your life purpose. There is a difference between purpose & goal. purpose is the one for which we have been sent to the earth or for which we are living. For example my purpose is to educate poor children so that they can be independent in their life too. Goal is considered to be the stepping stone of how we will achieve our purpose. Stay away from distractions and start giving more importance to knowledge rather than appearance. Look at the history of famous leaders like Mahatma Gandhi, Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel, Swami Vivekananda, Amitabh Bachchan, Mark Zuckerberg, Ratan Tata, MS dhoni, Jack Ma and many more. You will able to clearly justify what they have overcome and how they have made a remarkable change. It will surely inspire you. Now it's your turn to turn every unturned opportunity into your favor. In this process of fulfilling our purpose, we will be sometimes pass through failures and bad situations also but we do not have to give up and keep on fighting with the same intensity and enthusiasm because the ultimate result is much more worthy than the temporary failures.  remember " There will always be some people who will hate you, rate you, shake you, break you but how strong you stand is what makes you."  

3. Help others and grow together

When a person help or lift others up, automatically he/she becomes more down to earth in this process. Do guide and direct people to the right path. As shree Indra nooyi ji once said "Throw your heart, mind and soul in whatever you are doing". Most admiring thing about human is heart. The single most superior benchmark to know the real person hide behind the face is by his/her heart. Heart consists of pure feelings, kindness and ultimate energy source provider to all our 5 senses. Do not let anyone down and do not make fun of them without knowing the mind condition of other person. The words we say may unknowingly hurt the person's feeling so be careful with your words. 

4. Explore, Dream & Discover 

The more you will explore this world, the more you will able to expand your mind & more confident you will become. Dream is the source of energy from which everything starts so keep on dreaming and be curious to know new things. Everything you see around you is the result of discoveries whether that is the mobile phone you are holding, the sofa or chair you are sitting on and the clothes you are wearing. In a true sense discoveries and innovations are the one which makes things easy or effortless. We have been, we are and we will be needing such discoveries every now & then so do involve yourself with one of it. 

5. Meditate and peace everything out

Health is wealth so among all these life mantra, your health is the number one priority. Meditation will connect you with the existence of God in true sense. You eventually also spend the time with yourself when you are meditating. Exercise also helps to circulate blood in your body and provide oxygen to every organs of body so give exercise also a place in your daily routine. Most importantly meditation & exercise will make your mind more strong. Start your day with healthy mind and love yourself always the way you are claiming to love your crush. 

I hope from now when next time people force you with their so called judgments and makes you feel like a left over, you will listen & believe yourself only. Also enjoy every moment, stay in present, be crazy and do not forget to thank God for giving you the precious gift called 'LIFE' 

Let's start a new life with purpose.
Let's strengthen our inner voice one more time.
Let's break all stereotypes this world has thrown over us.

Your journey of making this world a better place to live starts now.

Go ahead you beautiful soul!